New year resolution

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

I will get more fit and get into proper shape. Not going to bed before learning something new. No more risking of being unpunctual. Eat fewer calories. Make more money. Consume less alcohol, quit smoking. Travel to places. Sounds pretty much like new year resolutions, right?  

 

I hope all of us polish it off successfully. This year, let us try to put few more pledges together. There are things which we usually don’t take into account while working on ourselves for turning  ‘prime’. Let's leave no stone unturned in achieving miles by achieving few more things like -

ü Call at least one friend once a week

ü Try to help at least one person a day. If can’t, don’t forget to pray for him. This is the least every human can do

ü Try to be as polite and as calm as possible with your mom and try to spend more time with your dad

ü A short family trip once a year

ü Catching up with friends at least once a month

ü Adapting non judgemental listening and unbiased opinions as more as possible

ü Start saving and investing

ü Develop one hobby that keeps you physically fit, one to stay mentally fit and one that you just love

ü Don’t fail appreciate good things and efforts

ü Familiarize yourself with basic cooking

ü Developing attitude of gratitude

New year is all about new and better things. While running after the success and fame, these are the things which hold us when any of our feet falters. If we do no good to our near and dear ones, then it is all in vein! let us make it better surrounding for us and others.

Do good, work hard and sleep better!

Happy new year!

Being a man

BEING A MAN!

Cheers to the aesthetic creation of god – Man! As a woman, I had always been thinking  about all the perks of being a man, all the freedom that they enjoy,  and all the power they are favoured with. Overlooking the fact – Great responsibilities come with great power! We always talk about upsides of being a man, why no one talks about downsides of being a man? I have always seen people jawing about how facile it is to be a man. But down the line, the upsetting reality is that man himself doesn’t feel this way and what is more distressing is that he has got no one to talk about this or rather I would say he chooses not to share. Why?

Men are mistaken as careless creature. They are being stated as mischievous trouble makers, quoting  - “ Men will be men.”  Resilient and flat are what they are being thought as! If a man is expressive he’s being mocked out about his sentimental nature, considering  it as not-so-manly attribute. If he is not expressive, he’s mistaken as toneless and unemotional.

From early years he is being taught to be tough and resilient. A brother sacrifices chocolates for his sister, a son sacrifices his dreams for his family, a lover sacrifices his earnings and time for his lady love, a father sacrifices his needs for his children and all these priceless sacrifices are referred as his duty, inevitable!  Man’s life is always full of drastic changes which are unpreventable. But the thing is, he is never told how special he is. He is always being judged for his actions and his choices if it doesn’t match the fixed societal mould. It is always his cold heart and hot head which are subjects of discussions.  

Let’s talk about his innocent smile he keeps intact on his face after a long tiring day for his loved ones. Let us talk about his selfless nature and expecting nothing but just the betterment of his dear ones.  Let us talk about all the responsibilities he carries on his shoulders without any complaints.  Let us talk about the child he has been hiding inside him which constantly seeks attention and wants to get rewarded. Let us talk about his secretly caring and modest nature which we fall for. Let us talk about his invincible and tender personality which makes him. Let us talk openly to our dear mates and  try making them feel special as he sincerely deserves that.

We feel so honoured to be surrounded by gentlemen and are proud of you.

HAPPY MEN’S DAY!

Being average!

Hello, world!

                       I hope all you human beings are doing (actually) good. I am AVERAGE, the major community on earth, and writing this to get rid of all the false notions that people have developed regarding me. I feel really low when you fail to perceive my beauty and genuineness and instead of accepting me the way I am, you have started digging out the ways to eradicate me. Probably, because you’re not aware of the “real me”. Let me project myself in a better way.




         I am average – the quality which everyone possesses in a majority of the tasks. I was born with you only and getting older with you. I am helping you do things better and in most convenient ways. I have slight animosity with my first cousin – dullness, and that is why I am not allowing him to reside in you, but at the same time I am his elder brother, so can’t just abolish his existence, but definitely trying to reduce it. I am the type of creature who is most adaptable and adjustable as well. I would give you enough space to play around me and to experiment with me. Most of the times I am enough for you, in fact, best for you, but you fail to realize my importance. You can communicate with every class,I will allow you to be yourself in all the ways possible.  I assure you that you will never feel ejected because of me. I make you content with your life only if you get acquainted with me in a real sense. I am a good boy who always makes sure that people surrounded by me are not sad at least, if not happy. I am a multitasker, I can take up many activities at a time and be good enough at it, if not the best. Also, I am not self-obsessed, in fact, I have got pretty mixing nature, I provide a room for every emotion to fit in, I allow you to be yourself in a true sense.  I am a gentleman, living for my girlfriend – satisfaction. She is way prettier and soothing, trust me. But, at times you people don’t let us stay together. You think I am not good for her and SHE DESERVES BETTER. But no, she stays happy with me only, if you think my way.  I am a flexible person with not many high expectations, so doing little good will make me happy, good for satisfaction, right? I don't demand much and just wants her to exist forever. But you people don't want me to be with her. Even though I offer you the room for yourself, your comfort zone, your existence, your desires, your progress everything, you still don’t like me.   I keep motivating you for better and pushing you forward towards better to meet my brother – excellence. He’s best among all of us, but very difficult to please and keep. He demands a great amount in terms of efforts but he's of supreme quality. I just love him, of course, he is decent to my girlfriend too. He’s superior to me in every possible way, but at the same time, he is pricey too. I am your good wisher, I want you to have him. But you're just being ridiculous, you don't want to work hard enough, and then blame me for everything. Wow! You desire my girlfriend – satisfaction but have issues with me? Oh hello, even she's a nice girl, accept me first, only then she will come to you, you fool. Excuse my language, but now I’ve had enough. I’ve tried enough to save myself and tired of hiding behind fake smartness. Stop losing the amazing you in order to avoid me and meet my elder brother. My brother will himself come to meet you if you accept me wholeheartedly, in fact, I would also help you in doing this. Just stop making anyone possessing me to feel low, and accept them the way they are. Don't fool yourself by not befriending me and running away from me, as your way to happiness, satisfaction and excellence pass through me only and I am here to make you a better person and nothing else.

             I hope now you will realize your worth, having me in you and don’t let yourself or anyone else regret about having me. Looking forward to the quick acceptance and good change

Thank you.

Yours sincerely,
Mr. Average.  

Independence Day Special!

Happy Independence Day to all! Independence day is being commemorated on August 15, every year to celebrate the nation’s freedom from the British domain after almost 200 years of darkness.

"By independence, we have lost the excuse of blaming the British for anything going wrong. If hereafter things go wrong, we will have nobody to blame except ourselves. There is a great danger of things going wrong.” Seventy - two years ago, Babasaheb Ambedkar made this prophetic observation in his very last Constituent Assembly speech. There were times when India was known as “Sone ki chidiya” (golden sparrow),  and today, there are times when brain drain is hotfoot. As of today, while celebrating 72 ^nd Independence Day, we perceive that things are going fearfully dicey, owing to the fact that the rise of communal and fascist forces control the State apparatus.The political parties which just gloats to work honestly and in reality overlooks the plights that citizens of the country are going through and is more indulged in exclusive benefits of the party are somewhere the reason behind the current critical condition of the nation. The religion which is supposed to bind the community together, the people together has now been a major weapon and the cause behind all the communal riots and the stone around which dirty politics is being woven around.

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     Safety of women is in danger and sticking to laws is just as delusional as it can be. The previous culprit is still roaming around the streets and headlines of a new rape case is being seen. Girls fear getting out alone and administration is still relaxing in its own skin. Quality of education is getting degraded and unemployment is drastically increasing. Skills are deploying and alcoholism is swiftly increasing. Clean water, pure edible products are diminishing and food poison is increasing. Management of healthcare system is itself unhealthy and hospital frauds are seen around.  

The freedom struggle gave us a creative, broad, constructive and inclusive idea of nation. But the narrative of nationalism today is going against that vision. The policies of the government have caused distress to all sections of the working people. Old India used to be enriched in almost every aspect, from safety to health, from the government to society, and from food to education.  

The day when the daughters of the country will be able to roam fearlessly, that would be the real Independence Day. The day when a person would procure satisfaction from his government would be a true Independence. The day where no inequality would exist in any aspect would be real independence. Freedom is not just independence, it’s the whole eternal state.

Happy Independence Day!

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"Life without money - imaginable?"

Let me just spare a moment to anticipate the world existing without money. Nothing like money, bucks, boodle or anything of that sort exists on the planet.

 Let's envisage our world without money! No world wars, no financial discrimination, no class bifurcation, less homelessness,  no theft crimes, no corruption, fewer rejections, less unwilling acceptances, fewer breakdowns, nothing will be a luxury anymore, prejudice won't exist any longer, fewer complications, more simplicity, less sadness, more happiness, less tension, more peace. How soothing does this sound! Adding just one buoyant element - MoNeY seizes this whole assertion. 

Patently, This seems like a parallel world altogether.How much significance does this vital element call money held in our lives! But, if this is the case, would you still do what you are doing now? Would you still choose your current lifestyle? let's not allow EVERYthing to revolve around money. let's try to be little less materialistic and little more bona fide. 

Manifestly, it is impossible to think this way. But, thankfully imagination doesn't entail any levy.

Love!

LOVE!

Love? What’s love? Love is not something which you feel in your heart, its something which you feel in your brains. A heart is so easy to get fooled, get perplexed amidst the pool of sentiments and mistakes it as love, brain clicks just for love, true love. I learned that when I fell in love with the idea of falling in Love. Love is not just concerning remembering birthdays, anniversaries or any other special dates. love is not just about greeting each other with morning and night messages every day, every night. Love is not facebook status, nor about sharing your Facebook password with your partner. Love is not about physical pleasure.  Love is not about gifting and hanging out together.

Love is about mental connection, mental synchronisation. Love is not about finding a perfect partner, its about making a perfect relationship. Love is not just a feeling, it is your own eternal state, your own internal state.  its all about how do you feel just by being with them, talking with them. Love is not just a want, its a need too.  It is about understanding the priorities. It is about making each other feel special on your own, not just with materialistic gifts. Love is like giving a revolver in someone’s hand, pointing right on your head and having trust that they will not pull the trigger. Love is giving the power to destroy you to someone, yet they protect you from the destroyers and make you stronger. Love is a weakness that makes you stronger. If your tiredness disappears just by talking to them, it is love. If you want to tell everything that happens with you to them, you are in love. If you spin your dreams with them in it, you are in love.  Love encases respect, compassion, peace and passion, sprinkling happiness everywhere. Love is not always pink and red, it comes with all the darker shades, offering you the potential to paint it pink and red. love is not measured in time, it is measured in moments. love is sailing together in the same boat in trembling ocean and during calm flow as well. 

Love lets you " BE YOU" without needing to change your originality.  Love is a feeling in which you will only rise even after falling into it.