Standing in front of the mirror -
Reflection - “Hey, How are you man?”
Me – “I am good”
Reflection – “ Bro, no point in lying to me. I know you’re
not fine.”
Me – “ I don’t know, what’s it but I don’t feel good, don’t
feel satisfied.”
Reflection – “ You are frustrated. Frustrated on some people
for doing this, on some people for not doing that. You have become so habitual with
your frustration that 70% of your body is not water but frustration.
Procrastination, and anger. LOL”
Me – “ If you are here to make fun of me, then I am leaving.
Bye”
Reflection – “ I have a solution to your problem. But it’s
okay, you would refrain to talk about it. AS USUAL!! BYE!!!
Me – “yea okay, stop being melodramatic. Speak up.”
Reflection – “Okay, only because you insist. Buckle up for this. You
have become too stubborn now and selfish too”
Me – “ Can you please elaborate? You have become so
mean han”
Reflection – “Sure. When your friend/loved ones do something unexpected or something you don't like, you change your behavior abruptly. Okay, that shit hurts, I agree. But you don't handle it properly."
Me – “I don't mess things up easily, come on you know that. It takes me
time but, eventually, I go back to them."
Reflection – " Yes, I appreciate that. But I am talking about
your inner peace. Being frank, Initially, You behave unusually and when you
are done satisfying yourself with your pricey behavior towards them. I know you
try a lot, but you disturb your peaceful state in all these."
Me – “ yes, you are right ☹.”
Reflection – " All I am saying is put yourself in their
shoes and try to understand their actions. It is not just for them, it is for
your healthy happy state. Because you are going to go back to them anyway.”
Me – “ I shall try adopting this, genius.”
Reflection – “ ah, Happy realization! One more thing you
will be happy to realize after practicing is the feeling of satisfaction and
pride for yourself. It’s always about how you feel for yourself. LET GO OF YOUR
EGO and you’ll be as light and happy as possible.”
Me – “ You have got a point dude, I must say!
Reflection – “ Well, Tell me something I don’t know 😉.”
Me – “ So, Mr ‘I know everything’ tell me this – why do I
stay unsatisfied or unhappy with life?’
Reflection – “ yes, you work like a machine, and then chill
like a boss during vacation. Am I right?
Me – " Yes, I love that, a pro at both of the
things."
Reflection – " Are you sure? Because that's exactly why
you're here today, not-so-happy han Mr. ‘I know nothing'? your life lacks
balancing. Either you are so lazy or so active, either so workaholic or an
amazing procrastinator. There is just no balance.”
Me – “ True that ☹ ! The solution to this, sir?
Reflection – “Why not, bro? when you were a kid there were 4
phases – morning, afternoon, evening and night. Now, you have got just two –
day and night!! Why bro!! Have time for your loved ones and your hobby, come
what may.
Pick at least two hobbies – one which keeps you fit and one
which keeps you love and keeps you happy. Fitness is not just a healthy body,
it’s a healthy mind too. Do something which keeps you fit daily and something
which makes you feel good weekly. Try calling up your friends just to chit
chat, it does not necessarily have a purpose always. Just the way your PRECIOUS
cell phone needs to be charged, you also need a charge-up. The vacations you go
out on are a total battery replacement. By then, you have to charge a battery
regularly manh.
Me – “ Sadly, I agree with you. I am feeling so good after
talking to you.”
Reflection – " Sure, in that case, add this too to your
to-do list of ‘ Things I will try to do to keep myself happy' okay?"
Me – “ Sure thing, Never going to underestimate you ever
again.”
Reflection – “ That’s my boy!”
Me – “ Okay, one more thing I want to ask is ..”
Reflection – “No more things! I am done for the day. Help
yourself with this first, shall talk about other things next time.
Me – “ Okay, Thank you so much 😊”
Reflection – "Always there for you! Now please let me
rest. Shooooo!!"
