BEING A MAN!
Cheers to the aesthetic creation of god – Man! As a
woman, I had always been thinking about
all the perks of being a man, all the freedom that they enjoy, and all the power they are favoured with.
Overlooking the fact – Great responsibilities come with great power! We always
talk about upsides of being a man, why no one talks about downsides of being a
man? I have always seen people jawing about how facile it is to be a man. But
down the line, the upsetting reality is that man himself doesn’t feel this way
and what is more distressing is that he has got no one to talk about this or
rather I would say he chooses not to share. Why?
Men are mistaken as careless creature. They are being
stated as mischievous trouble makers, quoting
- “ Men will be men.” Resilient
and flat are what they are being thought as! If a man is expressive he’s being mocked
out about his sentimental nature, considering
it as not-so-manly attribute. If he is not expressive, he’s mistaken as
toneless and unemotional.
From early years he is being taught to be tough and
resilient. A brother sacrifices chocolates for his sister, a son sacrifices his
dreams for his family, a lover sacrifices his earnings and time for his lady
love, a father sacrifices his needs for his children and all these priceless
sacrifices are referred as his duty, inevitable! Man’s life is always full of drastic changes which are unpreventable. But the thing is, he is never told how special
he is. He is always being judged for his actions and his choices if it doesn’t
match the fixed societal mould. It is always his cold heart and hot head which
are subjects of discussions.
Let’s talk
about his innocent smile he keeps intact on his face after a long tiring day
for his loved ones. Let us talk about his selfless nature and expecting nothing
but just the betterment of his dear ones. Let us talk about all the responsibilities he
carries on his shoulders without any complaints. Let us talk about the child he has been hiding
inside him which constantly seeks attention and wants to get rewarded. Let us
talk about his secretly caring and modest nature which we fall for. Let us talk
about his invincible and tender personality which makes him. Let us talk openly
to our dear mates and try making them feel special as he sincerely deserves that.
We feel so honoured to be surrounded by gentlemen and are
proud of you.
HAPPY MEN’S DAY!
